It is true that in some relationships, a party contributes more than the other. It may be because of time, finances, resources or emotional background.... Every body with his/her story.
What I realised with time is that those who contribute less in such relationships, tend to control so much of it!
To my amazement, such people dictate the pace, style and happiness in such relationships.... Can you imagine?
Sweethearts, if you have a partner who brings little or nothing to the table when it comes to your relationship, I see no reason then why he/she should control much of it.
To gain control of a relationship, your partner should be ready to sacrifice a lot towards the growth of the relationship. A relationship/marriage is like a tree which is planted, it needs nurturing for it to grow and look healthy. What this means is that each relationship (be it friendship, courtship, dating or marriage), needs dedication from the parties involved.
If you cannot contribute your best to a relationship, you do not need to control much of it. And if you want to be able to have a say in a relationship, be ready to contribute almost everything you can to its growth..... It's as simple as that!
Wish you all the best in your relationships......
Cheers,
Bukola Oyetunji
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