Wednesday, 16 July 2014
Dear BOB Readers: Caught my wife cheating on me...... yet she is not remorseful!
Dear BO, I've been trying to write to you for a while now but couldn't get to it. Things have deteriorated to the point that I need someone to talk to by all means hence my mail.
Just found out my wife of 10years is cheating on me with a guy her age-mate. I am 7 years older than my wife but take care of her with everything in my capacity.
I recently noticed she started receiving long calls, started going out more with her friends and even went to the gym regularly without me forcing her to (like I used to before). She seldom stay at home weekends, always going to one occasion or the other. I used to believe all her lies before but now I know she had been having sexual escapades.
After catching her red-handed with the guy, she confessed to me that she is in love and blamed me for neglecting her and not caring for her enough.
The most annoying thing is I have never denied her of anything she asks for and the guy does not even have a job which means she has been collecting money from me to give the man. This is really painful.
Now, she's not remorseful at all and even asked me if I still want her in my life or want her to leave..
I am very confused as to what to do because I love my wife and still think we can make things work between us.
Please advise me on what to do....