Friday, 6 June 2014

Relationship Tip of The Day: ......and there won't be an end.

I love this relationship tip as written by Anthony Robbins. It can save relationships that are on the brink of collapse when put into use. It may seem like a simple tip but it is very important in ensuring you have a healthy relationship.

We usually get too relaxed with growing number of years, especially in marriage. We forget the days we were having so much fun going on dates, travelling together, attending shows, concerts, happy hours etc with our loved ones. Without knowing it, our life becomes a routine..... home to office, office back home (on week days), then home to church, church meetings on Saturdays and back home in the evening to do household chores, then we have a repeat on Sunday and then retire to bed, too tired to even have an intimate time with our spouse.

Whether you agree with me or not, such regular routines break marriages gradually. Before you know it, things have deteriorated to a point beyond immediate redemption! Dreadful right? Would you want that to happen to you?

If you answered 'NO' to my last question.....  This is what you can do. Give your spouse enough attention like you did in the beginning, give compliments when necessary, go out on dates, buy him/her gifts, cuddle as much as you can, watch movies together, play games together, get as intimate as you can and remember to say "I love you"every now and then.

Do what you did in the beginning of your relationship and there won't be an end!

Bukola Oyetunji