Monday, 22 September 2014

Relationship Tip of The Day: Immature People Always Want to Win Arguments.....

It is very true that most times when we have arguments with our partners/spouses, we try our utmost best to let the other person understand where we are coming from. By all means we want to win the argument just to prove that we are not wrong and that we know what we are saying or doing.
It is really not bad to do this, but when it is at the cost of the joy and happiness in your relationship...... it is usually not worth it.

No matter how important an issue is, winning an argument over it should not overcloud your reasoning. The other person's feelings should be top on your minds. If arguing on and on about that issue makes your spouse/partner feel hurt or inadequate, then you need to understand how golden silence can be.

Your relationship is far more important than winning any argument just to prove a point so please be mature in your dealings with your partners/spouses. It won't do you any harm if you let them win once in a while you know? Be the mature one who prefers losing an argument just to uphold a golden relationship. Your partner/spouse will recognise this and love you even more for the level of maturity you would have acquired overtime.

Wish you all the best in your relationships..

Bukola Oyetunji

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

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