Tuesday, 9 September 2014

Relationship Tip of The Day: ... Stop choosing the same type of men!

I met a lady recently who was very sad about the way men used and dumped her. She was so bitter and rated all men as the same .

After listening to her for a while,I must confess, I felt sorry about the situation she was in. I also felt maybe she had to check herself, maybe she was attracted to the same type of men over and over again.

I eventually told her she probably had to stop choosing the same type of men. If a tall, dark and handsome man broke her heart today and she ends up with another tall, dark and handsome man tomorrow, then she should stop looking out for the physical appearance in a man. She should start searching for the inner beauty that makes a perfect soulmate.

Ladies need to know that if they keep getting their hearts broken, it may not be wise to conclude it's because all men are the same. They have to understand that the best measure to take is change the type of man they choose. At the end of the day, they would definitely end up with the best man for them.

In summary, be the wise woman......let God choose for you, you won't regret it!

Bukola Oyetunji

1 comment:

Laide said...

This was the mistake i made for several years till i realised it.Ladies need to allow a man to find them. I also agree with Bukola that we should let God choose for us. Thank God I am happily married now to the best man for me..