Money Nurtures Love.... True or False?

I had a chat with an old friend some time ago and couldn’t help but make up my mind to write an article on the issue we discussed…………

Relationship Tip of The Day: Take the time to water your own grass...

Very many people in relationships/marriage do often think that they are not with the best person for them. This is because they've seen almost everything about their partner. I call this "See finish syndrome"..lol.

Relationship Tip Of The Day: Singles...... Don't apply if you are not ready!

Before you start complaining about how tired you are of living without that special one to call yours, do you  know that being in a relationship is a full time job?

BOB READERS: The man I love is about to get married to someone else!

From a female BOB reader:

Dear BOB readers, I've never been lucky with relationships until I met Ronald few years ago. I fell in love with him right from the first time I laid eyes on him, it was magical.

Relationship Tip Of The Day: Be weird. Be random........

It's always better to be yourself as a single lady/man. It makes it possible to meet someone who would love you for the rest of his/her life.

Trying to be someone else is dangerous because whoever falls in love with you, would eventually find out how fake you are..... he/she is likely to fall out of love as fast as possible.

Know today that not minding how weird, crazy or plain you think you are, there's someone out there to love you for YOU!

Wish you all the luck you need.....

Bukola Oyetunji

Are Women Really Gullible?

 Most times when I sit with guys to gist, it baffles me how much they think we women are gullible and easy to influence. I usually find myself arguing on behalf of all women, most times to no avail. Once guys believe a thing, it’s always really difficult to change their minds…lol

Relationship Tip of The Day: Never Make The One You Love Feel Alone.........

Relationships are important because it gives companionship. It gives you someone you can talk to, share your thoughts and troubles with and most importantly, it gives you a shoulder to cry on.

You all need to know that having a special person in your life is a gift to cherish and be proud of. No matter how busy you are, that special person should never be allowed to feel neglected, no matter what!!!

Childcare should not be used as an excuse not to have time for your significant other, also, health issues shouldn't be used as one.

When you're around, spend as much time as you can with your love, talk about how your day went, the plans you have for tommorrow, the dreams you have that have not yet come to pass and every other thing that's top on your mind..... it goes a long way in helping your relationship stay healthy!

Wish you luck with your relationships......

Cheers,
Bukola Oyetunji

You Want True Love? Then you got to read this!

 

We all crave to find someone that will love us truly;

1. For who we are

2. Who we've been and

3. Who we are likely to become in future

Getting this special person need not be difficult, as long as we learn to make the best out of life.

 

To find true love, here are some things you need to consider: 

BOB READERS: Help.... I caught my husband having sex with my sister!

From a reader:
Hi Bukola Oyetunji and all BOB readers,
I recently found out my husband is having frequent sex with my immediate younger sister who has been living with me since we lost both our parents to an auto crash few years ago. My neighbours had been telling me about this for a while but I could not believe them. When my ears became full, I secretly planned for them. Told them I was going for a project outside Lagos, came back home when they were not expecting me and behold, I sadly caught them both in the abominable act.

I've been praying to God to give me the fruit of the womb for over 8yrs now and here's my husband stopping my prayers from getting answers from God by cheating with my own blood sister for Christ's sake!

I've not been able to tell anyone about this because I can't stand being a laughing stock. My sister has been weeping, telling me it's devil's work and my hubby has been asking for my forgiveness in every way you can think of.

Now I'm at a crossroad and don't know what to do. Should I send my sister out of my house or I should get a divorce since I don't have children for this man? Maybe we were not destined to be together, who knows?

Please readers, I need your advice urgently, need to take a decision before I get insane!

---Frustrated Wife & Sister

BOB Readers: My 16yr old daughter is a mother + my 18yr old daughter may never have a child of her own!

Hello Readers, how’s your week going?
You all won’t believe the mails I receive and the type of questions people ask.
Relationships can really be tough, we all need every piece of good advice we can get and most especially God’s grace.
A woman sent me a mail yesterday, it is really a touching and pathetic one. She wants all BOB readers to read and learn from her story. According to her, she decided to talk to me after reading the article I posted on this blog; MY BODY, MY PRIDE! Read http://bukolaoyetunji.wordpress.com/2014/02/28/my-body-my-pride/

Read her story below: