How to be a Happily Married Person

 

I sincerely don’t know why but I love being happy. This is why I do everything within my power to make myself personally happy. Well, I think it’s because I’ve learnt over the years that happiness comes from within. I have come to know the importance of being at peace with my inner self, my spouse and most especially with God. All these go a long way in giving us the happiness we desire as individuals.

Relationship Tip of The Day: STAND UP and be the man she needs....

Being in a relationship demands a lot of sacrifices from both parties, however, when a man fails to live up to his responsibilities, the success of such relationship becomes almost impossible.

Women need a man that can stand up and be the man they need. A man who is worthy of being called a man. Strong, dependable and with reliable shoulders to lean on. A woman needs a man that is sensitive enough to know when she needs him to speak words of encouragement to her or just keep quiet and listen while she pours out her feelings/emotions.

A man that can not live up to these expectations should sit down, so she can see the man behind him because he sure does not deserve her.

So, if you are a man out there and you want that woman to tie the knots with you, please STAND UP  and be the man she needs. Don't just live your life like it's yours alone. Do things in a way that makes it quite evident you care for her and that you want her in your life forever. She is your woman so she deserves all the best she can get from you. *wink*

Wish you luck in your relationships!

Cheers,
Bukola Oyetunji

Relationship Tip of the Day: A Real Man Ends a Relationship......

Yes I've seen so many men who feel they'd be hurting a woman's feelings by telling her they are no longer interested in the relationship they have with her. I think this is mere cowardice.

Dear BOB Readers: I have a child for another man but my husband wants me back!

From a female BOB Reader:

Why It Is A Must You Get Married As Soon As Possible!

 

I love the freedom I have

I can wake up anytime I want

Relationship: How To Handle The Pressure of Being Single....

 

“Why are they looking at me that way?

I think they pity me but why?

Oh….. Cause I’m not married yet?

I hear them whisper my name

Hear them say it’s my fault

Have they lost hope in me when I’ve not?

 I’m sure the right lady will come the right time

I’ve left fate to decide when

Oh….. How I hate the pressure they put me through!

Many matured singles are getting totally frustrated not just because they don’t have a man or woman to call their own but because of the pressure they are passing through.

Relationship Tip of The Day: Let God Make A Man Out of Him....

We have a lot of guys out there that ladies can easily fall for.. the type you call a "ladies' man" you know? *wink*. However, the type of man any serious minded lady who is looking for something permanent should fall in love with is the man who has the fear of God.

Relationship Tip of The Day: This is the type of man you should be with...

If you are lucky to have a man who feels so proud of you and would make you feel accomplished, lucky you! Sink your finger nails into him with all your strength...lol.

A good man is hard to find so, settle down with him and have a beautiful future together.

Wish you all the best!

Cheers,
Bukola Oyetunji

Relationship Tip Of The Day: Never make your woman feel single or she will act as such!

Men...... The relationship tip of today is directed at you! #grinning#

 

I've seen some marriages that started on a good foot turn to the unimaginable, simply because the man failed to appreciate the woman he had.

Women find it easier to stay faithful and devoted to their marriage and husband respectively but knowing this should not be a pass for her man to take her for granted!

For the married: How Often Do You Respect Your Spouse's "Right of Intimacy" With You???

 

The day you said 'I do' to your spouse, you gave him or her the "Right of Intimacy' with you. Intimacy has a lot to do in ensuring you have a very peaceful, grudges-free marriage. Because this right has been shelved in most marriages, most couples end up having an unsatisfying sex life. They no longer enjoy making love with each other for some reasons. It may be as a result of a busy schedule on the part of one of the partners or both. It may also be because of health issues while it may be because they’ve lost that initial spark that brought about intimacy between them.

Dear BOB Readers: Help….My Wife Wants Me Dead!!!

From a BOB Reader:
“Hello BOB Readers,
I married my wife 10 years ago in United States of America and I loved her very much. One thing led to the other and we came back to Nigeria 4 years ago. Fortunately for me, on our return, I got a job in one of the multinationals in Lagos. We began to live a very good life even better than when we were in US. I had a company car, a driver, a very conducive accomodation, and was able to travel outside the country anytime I wanted -along with my family.

20 Romantic Ideas of PROPOSING MARRIAGE TO YOUR WOMAN

Gone are the days when men from this part of the globe do not see proposing to a woman as an important point in a relationship. Our men go extra length now to plan that very surprising and romantic proposal for their sweethearts.